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婆媳关系容易失调的主要原因
[ 2011-9-18 10:21:00 | By: 杨远锋 ]
 

◎关系特殊
    家庭的基本关系有两种:一是夫妻关系,一是亲子关系,两者构成了家庭结构的基础。其它关系,如兄弟姐妹关系、姑嫂关系以及婆媳关系、祖孙关系都是在此基础上派生出来的。婆媳关系在家庭人际关系中有其特殊性。它既不是婚姻关系,也无血缘联系,而是以以上两种关系为中介结成的特殊关系。因此,这种人际关系一无亲子关系所具有的稳定性,二无婚姻关系所具有的密切性,它是由亲子关系和夫妻关系的延伸而形成的。如果处理得好,婆婆和媳妇各自“爱屋及乌”——婆婆因爱儿子而爱媳妇,媳妇因爱丈夫而爱婆婆,各得其所,关系就会融洽。但是如果处理不好则婆媳之间会出现裂痕,难以弥补。
◎利益分歧
    婆媳同在一个家庭中生活。有共同的归属,自然也就有着共同的经济利益,双方也自然都希望家庭兴旺发达。这是婆媳利益一致的一面。但同时也常常在家庭事务管理权、支配权等方面发生分歧,出现矛盾,甚至明争暗斗。
    我国家庭中有“男治外、女治内”的传统,婆婆做了几十年的内当家,现在把权力交给媳妇,媳妇在家庭事务中唱起了主角。对这种角色的转换,做婆婆的往往不易适应。“有的婆婆虽已年过花甲,却仍希望继续保持在家庭中的经济支配权,或者难以接受完全由媳妇掌握家庭经济大权的事实;而做媳妇的也往往不甘让步,这就难免发生矛盾。即便是婆婆和媳妇共同持家,由于各自的地位不同,考虑问题的角度不同、需要不同,也容易产生分歧。”
◎适应不良
    婆媳原来各自生活在不同的家庭之中,各有各的生活背景、生活习性,而现在婆媳在一家生活,这就有一个逐步了解、相互适应的过程。如果适应不良,彼此不能接纳,便会关系紧张,矛盾丛生。

◎中介失衡
    在婆媳关系中,儿子起着十分重要的中介作用。儿子的这种中介作用如果发挥得好,则可以加强婆媳之间的情感联系,反之,则容易成为矛盾的焦点,出现“两面受敌”的困境。尽管母子情深,也难以避免结婚以后这种关系变得复杂的事实。因为夫妻之间毕竟在活动、打算、开支以及交往等方面有着更多的共同点。在这些问题上,夫妻观点的一致性往往要超过母子观点的一致性。这是因为儿子和母亲相隔一代,在心理上存在着差异,这样就容易造成儿子中介作用的失衡。如果母亲不理解,就会产生“娶了媳妇忘了娘”的心态,误认为儿子对自己的感情被儿媳夺去了,而迁怒于儿媳。

 
 
 
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[ 2016-9-6 16:27:18 | By: 原创(游客) ]
 
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原创
[ 2016-9-28 16:00:47 | By: 原创(游客) ]
 
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原创
[ 2016-9-30 10:35:54 | By: 原创(游客) ]
 
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Re:在漫画中识别身边的违章
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Re:在漫画中识别身边的违章
[ 2016-10-14 18:09:08 | By: rgkor(游客) ]
 
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Re:在漫画中识别身边的违章
[ 2016-10-15 5:10:13 | By: ndehk(游客) ]
 
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Re:在漫画中识别身边的违章
[ 2016-10-15 20:55:34 | By: kzegj(游客) ]
 
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Re:在漫画中识别身边的违章
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Re:在漫画中识别身边的违章
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Re:在漫画中识别身边的违章
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