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{教育孩子要做好的“三件事”}

            
   父母对待孩子无外乎三种情况:一是事事管、时时管,做了很多事,效果却不好;二是什么都不管,什么都不做,放任自流,不闻不问,结果更不好;三是也管但不全管,做得不多,但都切中要害,孩子成长一帆风顺。显然,“什么都做”和“什么都不做”都过于极端,失之偏颇,并不可取。杰出的父母从来都选择“有所为有所不为”,更明确地说,只需要做好三件事:


   ◤第一件事:培养良好的亲子关系



  好的关系胜过许多教育。父母什么时候与孩子关系好,对孩子的教育就容易成功;什么时候与孩子关系不好,对孩子的教育就容易失败。而建立良好的亲子关系,其关键在于“定位”:


◆1、不当“法官”,学做“律师”

  有些父母看到孩子出了问题,便迫不及待地当起了“法官”,这是很危险的。

  孩子的内心世界丰富多彩,父母要积极地影响与教育孩子,不了解其内心世界便无从谈起。而了解孩子的第一要诀是呵护其自尊,维护其权利,成为其信赖和尊敬的朋友。

  即父母对待孩子,要像“律师”对待自己的当事人一样,了解其内心需求,并始终以维护其合法权利为惟一宗旨。

◆2、不当“裁判”,学做“拉拉队”

  在人生竞技场,孩子只能自己去努力。父母既无法替代孩子,也不该自作主张去当“裁判”,而应该给予孩子一种保持良好竞技状态的力量,即“拉拉队”的力量。这样更能帮助孩子建立自信心,而这正是家庭教育的核心任务。

 

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ecuwa(游客)http://www.battlenet.com.cn/forums/zh/bnet/topic/18910371299#1
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ecuwa(游客) 2016-8-31 2:03:57 | 个人主页 | 引用 | 返回 | 删除 | 回复
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esee(游客)如果仅仅是当个孩子的拉拉队,孩子不会好到哪里去
如果孩子打人,是不是也做个拉拉队呢??
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aqywxs(游客)教子方法新颖,请老师把后两种方法也登载在空间
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